Character Structure - Integration
"...so your telling me there's a chance" - Dumb and Dumber
Do you have a "No" muscle...as a leader can you be direct and risk being unpopular?
If you want to be a good leader you MUST be able to tell some people and opportunities "No"...in order to be able to tell the best people and opportunities "Yes"...and to do that you must be able to express and distinct and different self.
To be a good leader you can't always be a popular leader, don't be a "Yes" man or woman...be your own man or woman...that has opinions and makes hard decisions. Your organization and your team will be better for it.