STOP being NICE! ....Instead be GOOD! Nice people make others around them feel comfortable, even when things are crashing down around them. Good people tell others the hard truths; they do the hard things....they care enough to be uncomfortable themselves in order to serve others.

You aren't a leader to feel comfortable...you are a leader to serve your organization, your team, your boss, your coworkers, your family and friends. Only Good people can serve them well....so I challenge you...STOP BEING NICE! ...BE GOOD INSTEAD.